In some families, there always seems to be a victim. No matter what happens, the story somehow finds its way back to the same person. They were hurt. They were disrespected. Nobody appreciates everything they've done. Someone else is selfish, ungrateful, cruel, or causing the family problems. And sometimes, that person is your parent. When you're growing up in this kind of dynamic, it can be incredibly confusing. You may find yourself constantly trying to make things right. Y